AW gunny, i know, i said it from the begning if you would go back and see some of the posts i had put up on here you would die, i knew this would happen because the people that CONSTANTLY got hand outs from the system on a regular basis, and the system is the operative word here, THEY ARE IN THE SYSTEM so that makes it easy for the government to seek them out and of course hand them more of our hard earned taxed dollars. You on the other hand are THE HARD WORKING TAXPAYER so the government doesnt want to HAND you anything, they simply want you PAYING IN to help the ones that take it OUT. You arent in the system there for you are LOW MAN ON THE TODUM POLE! Face it my friend, its the way it works plain and simple. Its hard to be diplomatic in a situation such as yours. But i look at it this way, the song says it all so well,,,,,,, LORD HAVE MERCY ON THE WORKING MAN. Whys the Rich man busy dancing, while the poor man pays the band, their billing me for killing me...........................LORD HAVE MERCY ON THE WORKING MAN................THE GOVERNMENT TREATS US LIKE A MUSHROOM CUZ THEY FEED usULLSHIT AND KEEP usN THE DARK...... The main point you said in your above statement is this, YOU HAVE your wife, your family, your puppies, and thats what counts,theysrvived this horrific event. But its hard not to see what actually goes on in a government that is supposed to help in such a great time of need. you hang in there buddy, and remember, GIVE A HOLLER, cuz im here to help if you need it any way i can as much as i can. I pray for you and your family always and hope that it all turns out. Look at it this way gunny NO ONE AND I MEAN NO ONE can say that you havent worked for everything you have!!!! Its just a shame the government cant change the system and get some of these low life jerks off their asses and make them work and stop pumping out kids they cant afford just to make us ( the hard working tax payer) pay for them. And these are the same people that will be living in a brand new house paid for by US, before they will even get tohelping you with yours!!!!!!!!!! i know its harsh and im sorry for being so blunt, but in every situation you will find that its true............................take care buddy......................love ya lots............................MrsX
